We're told Selena isn't angry at Justin for attacking her new BF, The Weeknd ... we're told she has no connection anymore with her ex.
That said, our Selena sources say she's fed up with everyone on social media trying to define her by the guy she's dating. She's proud of her accomplishments as a singer, and thinks every time she hooks up with someone people ignore her as an artist, a TV producer for a new show, the face of Coach and the most followed person on Instagram.
Selena's already taken steps to keep her identity separate from her boyfriends. She didn't attend last week's Grammys with The Weeknd and is very conscious when she's with him to present herself as her own person.
Speaking of The Weeknd, we're told he's laughing at reports his new song, "Some Way," is a rant against Bieber, taunting him with the relationship with his ex. We're told the song was written before he started dating Selena, so the stories are ridiculous.
'She's fed up with being defined by her boyfriends': Selena Gomez 'didn't attend the Grammys with The Weeknd in an attempt to separate her identity'
She had a tumultuous relationship with Justin Bieber, having previously been linked to Charlie Puth, Taylor Lautner and Nick Jonas.
And with rumours of her latest reported romance with The Weeknd rife, sources say Selena Gomez is fed up of being defined by her romances.
The actress turned award-winning singer, 24, reportedly opted not to attend the Grammys with her flame, in an effort to separate her identity.
Selena is the most followed celebrity on Instagram boasting a jaw-dropping 110million fans, and has sold over 7 million albums and 22 million singles worldwide.
A source told TMZ: 'She's fed up with everyone on social media trying to define her by the guy she's dating and is proud of her accomplishments as a singer.
'She thinks every time she hooks up with someone people ignore her as an artist, a TV producer for a new show, the face of Coach and the most followed person on Instagram.'
Meanwhile The Weeknd has also stayed quiet on their romance, but his latest track was thought to be a diss towards Justin, who she dated for almost six years.
'I think your girl, think your girl, fell in love with me,' he finishes the first verse. 'She say my f*** and my tongue game a remedy.'
In the chorus, he declares: 'I just took that chick, and I know you feelin' some way / She just want a ni*** like me, you feelin' some way'.
Even Nav appears to get involved in his own verse.
'The brown boy and the Starboy on a track / Haters gonna say this sh** is wack' — "wack" being exactly how Bieber describes The Weeknd's music, after calling out Starboy in particular.
The beef whipped up after The Weeknd - real name Abel Tesfaye - began dating Gomez.
Most recently the new couple were spotted taking a romantic cruise for two aboard a luxury yacht off Marina Del Rey over Valentine's weekend.
All the shots thus far have come from Justin; during a live Instagram chat with fans during his Grammy Awards boycott on Sunday night, he was asked his current favourite song, and replied 'Starboy by The Weeknd'.... before bursting into laughter.
'We gotta end it now. That was too funny,' he giggled.
Despite being nominated for several awards, Justin skipped the 'pointless' ceremony, which just happened to list The Weeknd among its performers on the night.
Last month the Sorry singer was also asked by TMZ if he'd listen to a song by The Hills hitmaker.
'Hell no I can't listen to a Weeknd song, that's just wack,' Justin replied.
Selena and Justin dated off and on from late 2010 until 2014 and briefly lived together.
Meanwhile Selena and The Weeknd were first linked in the months following his split from Bella Hadid at the end of last year.
Selena Gomez hates being defined by boyfriends
Selena Gomez is fed up of being defined by her boyfriends.
The 'Hands To Myself' hitmaker - who is currently dating 'Can't Feel My Face' singer The Weeknd - is reportedly doing all she can to separate herself from her boyfriend.
The brunette beauty made a point of not attending the Grammy Awards with her boyfriend as she wants people to focus on her as an artist rather than have people worry about who she's dating.
And Selena is also said to be pleading for her ex Justin Bieber - who she dated on and off for a number of years - to move on and stop criticising The Weeknd, TMZ reports.
Meanwhile, the 24-year-old singer's relationship with The Weeknd - real name Abel Tesfaye - is going from strength to strength after she recently spent a whopping $30,000 on a birthday party for her boyfriend.
Selena was unable to attend the party - which was held at Dave & Buster's in Hollywood - but she went on a romantic yacht trip with her beau to celebrate his birthday privately.
A source said: "Selena looked happy and in a romantic mood. The Weeknd looked happy and very amorous. They were very intimate and looked very much in love."
Whilst another insider added: "They are falling for each other. He has told [Selena] how much he cares for her.
"[They have a] crazy connection. Selena feel really confident. Abel is proud to have Selena by his side ...
"He really likes her. They text every day. They have a really sexy and flirty relationship. They laugh and like each others personalities. As of now, they are just having fun and enjoying each other.
"She is happy and doesn't mind sharing that with the world. Abel makes her feel secure and Selena has nothing to hide. Selena gets passionate about things real fast and that is exactly what she is doing with The Weeknd."